Developing Consistency in Your Life

Has God ever put something in your heart that made you question whether or not you have the time or the energy to accomplish it? What do you need to do in order to develop healthy habits in your life? How will this help your physical, emotional, and relational needs in life? Developing consistency in your life is a necessity!

There are a great many things that I do simply out of habit. Some of them happen without great effort and others…well they challenge me. I am working on some of those habits after the first of the year that are challenging me to stay consistent. 

My latest blog post: Challenge Accepted talked about the start of this process!

Knowing (and have known for some time) that I needed to develop some healthy habits in my physical body.  Namely exercise!  While this has been on my mind for some time, I never had the willingness to simply start.  

Personal Challenges

This year, I made the commitment to exercise 6 days a week.  While this goal is something that I have not done consistently throughout my life, I know that it is a necessity.  So, I started a gym membership and have consistently gone to the gym to exercise.  Fulfilling my goal.  

When I began the process of establishing some new priorities after the first of the year, one of my biggest road blocks was simply starting. Have you ever needed to simply start and afterwards thought, why didn’t I do this sooner? I have many times! 

With that in mind, as God began to impress upon me to make some changes in key areas of my life, starting was the issue. But once I started, I wondered why I had not done this earlier! However, now that I have started, the challenge is to stay consistent.

Cosistency Begins with a Decision.

Consistency begins with a decision. That decision starts with establishing the “why”. If you have a big enough “why” then the decision becomes solidified in your mind. If you cannot answer the question of “Why are you doing this?  Then the excuses can become greater than developing the habit.

Consistency Requires Constant Exercise

Once the decision is made, then developing consistency in a particular area of life requires constant exercise.  Like a muscle, consistency has to be constantly worked on in order for it to become stronger.  It doesn’t mean that you won’t fail, but it does mean that the longer you continue to work on it, the stronger and healthier it becomes.  

Consistency Requires Help

The Psalmist tells us that God equips me with strength.  This means that God is our source of strength when we need to develop consistent habits in our lives.  You could say it this way:

  • God gives me the strength to be faithful
  • God gives me the strength to show grace
  • God gives me the strength to face fears
  • God gives me the strength to fulfill my mission
  • God gives me the strength to be healthy

You could continue the list indefinitely, but understand the thought.  It is not by my strength that God will work through my life to develop me into what I am intended to be.  Rather, God supplies and equips me with the strength that I need to accomplish what He puts in my heart.

What areas of your life do you need to develop consistency in?  Make the decision to start and let God equip you with the strength to accomplish it.  As you consistently rely on Him for your strength in any area of your life, you will find it easier to translate that into new areas that He may challenge you in.  

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Challenge Accepted!

This year, I have challenged myself in many different ways. While it is early in the month of January and I have only just begun with these personal challenges, I am more resolved than ever to accomplish them. There is just something different about my drive to make some changes in my personal life in order to be the best me I can possibly be!

This journey may be a personal one, I know that one of the keys to keeping up with resolutions, challenges, or goals is to have accountability during and reward when completed. So not only will I share some of my challenges for the new year to keep me accountable, but I will give you some insight as to how I came to make these a priority.

It is my hope that I can encourage others through my own personal journey and give insight to the process that I discover along the way.

The Creativity Challenge

One area that I really wanted to work on was sparking my creativity. I have often found that my desire to write has often ran into a wall of creative deficit! I know that many will call it writers block and I think there is something to that. However, I feel like there are some things that I can do that will get the creative juices flowing.

One such journey is described in the video below. I have entitled it the Journey to 300. Take a listen!


The man that I got the idea from shared that he wanted a place for him to not only create, but to challenge himself to have a daily discipline of making videos. His videos reminded me of the desire that I have to share my thoughts and voice in some type of outlet.

Since changing roles in my life from Pastor to the Church Ministries Director, I have had limited opportunities to do something that I really enjoy and that is encouraging and teaching others. While I know that I am where I am suppose to be in my life’s journey, I also know that God’s desire for my life is not just to fulfill the role, but also be a voice which impacts people’s lives.

It is my prayer and hope that I can encourage others to find their God-given creative voice.

At the start of the year, I have challenged myself in other key areas. But I am sharing those as we go along. After all, I need something else to talk about in the videos and through this blog!!

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Let me know what Challenges you gave yourself this year and how you are doing! Also, how do you keep your self accountable and what rewards have you set up for accomplishing those goals?



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Blessed Beyond Measure

This week we have made our annual pilgrimage to Branson for our end of the year vacation.  It is always a great week for us because typically we come after Christmas and stay through the New Year.  But with the way our schedule worked out we have been here during Christmas day. This week has always reminded me I have a blessed life.

For the most part, people have been leaving Branson to go home for the holidays. This means that we have had the roads and activities to ourselves.  We love it, not for the shows (although we did go to Sight and Sound Theater this year) but for the peace and quiet. There are frequent naps, reading, and lots of eating.  It is our time to unwind.  

This year, Christmas has been different for all of the family.  We are learning a new normal.  With all the changes that have happened in the family over the past couple of years, it is inevitable that change will come to our holidays as well.  Some changes we have celebrated, such as Anna and Vincent’s new marriage.  Other changes have been extremely difficult.


Each year during this vacation, I have always taken time to internally reflect on the past and begin preparations for a new year.  Focusing on those things that are a part of my own personal journey that I can direct and leaving the rest to the Lord.  My personal spiritual, physical, emotional, relational, and a host of other areas that I know I can make the decisions that will impact each aspect of my life.

One of those areas of my life that I have been determined to work on for some time is having a right perspective.  A right perspective on life, relationships, work, money, and spiritual priorities is key to health in many areas of my life.  A right perspective can impact my personal journey as well as my interactions and relationships with everyone around me.  

Blessed Past

Thinking back on my life, I must say that I have been blessed.  I cherish the relationships of those who have invested into my life and given me grace beyond measure.  I appreciate their love for me and how it has positively impacted my life.  

My dad, mom, sister, grandparents, and extended family who have shared their life with me are memories that I cherish.   Nyree, Anna, and Miriam who have brought so much love and joy into my life have blessed me beyond measure.  Then there is Nyree’s family, Anna’s husband and family, who have taken me in and considered me one of their own.  This has meant the world to me!

I also consider all the opportunities, relationships, and experiences that have shaped who I am today.  These blessings have not always been easy, but have been a necessity in molding me into who I am today.  I am grateful for all that God has done to sovereignly guide and direct my journey through this life.  

Blessed Present

I have come to discover that a joyful life is not based on the things that you acquire, but the relationships and experiences that you enjoy each day.  As long as I maintain a proper perspective on life and how it plays out in the overall scope of eternity, then my relationships and experiences become far more important than my things.  

Considering all the blessings that God has graciously given me, I must say that I am overwhelmed with his goodness.  While there are times that I lose sight of his blessings when trials and difficulties come my way, I have to constantly remind myself to stay focused.  His love and grace toward me is the foundation that I stand upon each and every day.

Blessed Future

Looking over the totality of my life, I must say that God has been very good to me.  With that in mind, I can rest assured that what God does in my life in the future with also be for my good. The fact that he is constantly molding, guiding, and strengthening me shows that he loves and cares for me.  As he continues to do so in the future, I remind myself that he is always looking for what is yet to come.  

What God has planned for me goes beyond this life and encompasses my eternity.  It is this eternal perspective that he keeps in mind when looking at my life.  It is also the perspective I must keep at the forefront of my mind and life.  I can find his plan at work in my life everywhere I look. The key is to look.

The Bible says…

Ephesians 1 Paul reminds us of the incredible blessings we have been given through Jesus.  These blessings are for all who will believe and come with some incredible key ingredients to a fulfilled life.  Paul says: 

Blessed be the God and Father of our Lord Jesus Christ, who has blessed us in Christ with every spiritual blessing in the heavenly places, even as he chose us in him before the foundation of the world, that we should be holy and blameless before him. In love he predestined us for adoption to himself as sons through Jesus Christ, according to the purpose of his will, to the praise of his glorious grace, with which he has blessed us in the Beloved.

Ephesians 1:3–6 (ESV)

Paul tells believers that God has blessed us in the Beloved (Jesus) and that those blessings have everything to do with our relationship with Him.  Often believers get into the habit of simply talking about their material blessings that God has granted. While these are great, we must prioritize the most important blessings He has given.  In this passage we learn that God has granted grace, care, purpose and hope for all who would believe.

Consequently, these are the keys that each one of us needs to live a fulfilled and blessed life.  Knowing his grace is sufficient, his care is all-encompassing, his purpose is everlasting, and his hope is fulfilling is the foundation for a full and blessed life.  We must not lose sight of what is most important.

My Prayer

My prayer for each of you is that God would allow us to reset our perspective on the most important things in life.  As we realize his true blessings are eternal qualities and not temporary luxuries we will lean toward a happier and fulfilled life.  May God grant each of us the opportunity to open our eyes and hearts to the many things he is doing every day to show us how much he loves and cares for us.  



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“When we become primarily identified with any tribe outside the body of Christ, especially when we are identified to the point where others are repelled by us, we’ve traded our Kingdom-based identity for a world-based identity. It’s burning a bridge. It’s building a wall. The most damaging example of Christians at their worst is when someone claims a Kingdom-based identity but pursues some world-based end. Trying to use Christianity to achieve political, economic, or social objectives only increases the outrage directed toward us.”

Stetzer, Ed. Christians in the Age of Outrage: How to Bring Our Best When the World Is at Its Worst (p. 15). Tyndale Momentum. Kindle Edition.

Are we alienating a lost world around us by allowing our political tribes to become more important than our Kingdom priorities?  

By an act of faith, Abraham said yes to God’s call to travel to an unknown place that would become his home. When he left he had no idea where he was going. By an act of faith he lived in the country promised him, lived as a stranger camping in tents. Isaac and Jacob did the same, living under the same promise. Abraham did it by keeping his eye on an unseen city with real, eternal foundations—the City designed and built by God. Hebrews 11:8–10 (The Message) 

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“What we are saying—actually, what the Bible is saying—is that it is possible to get rid of our bitterness, rage, and anger. The grace that flows to us through Jesus can flow from us to others. We can be set free from the prison of unforgiveness.” (From the book Grace is Greater by Kyle Idleman)

Be kind to one another, tenderhearted, forgiving one another, as God in Christ forgave you.

Ephesians 4:32 (ESV)

So, chosen by God for this new life of love, dress in the wardrobe God picked out for you: compassion, kindness, humility, quiet strength, discipline. 

Colossians 3:12 (The Message)

A Hope Like Nothing Else

Hope.  One of the most precious commodities that we have as believers is our hope, which has a foundation much greater than what this world can offer.  We have a hope that is not based on our own emotion or circumstance, but upon an eternal promise that has been made to those who believe! This kind of hope produces a resolve, persistence, joy, and peace in the midst of trial and difficulty.  

The Psalmist tells us where we find this kind of hope.

God, the one and only— I’ll wait as long as he says. Everything I hope for comes from him, so why not? He’s solid rock under my feet, breathing room for my soul, An impregnable castle: I’m set for life. Psalm 62:5–6 (The Message)

The concept of hope and the characteristics of a life of hope points toward the idea of a better tomorrow.  Yet it goes beyond just desire or wishing for something greater or better, it is the deep assurance and a firm confidence that the future of every aspect of our lives is in God’s hands.  The promises that we have been given through his word, provides for us the assurance that there is hope for the future.  His past performance in our lives is a reminder that he does look out for us and answers prayer.  

Reminder #1: Biblical hope is directly linked to establishing a firm faith in God.

Oh! May the God of great hope fill you up with joy, fill you up with peace, so that your believing lives, filled with the life-giving energy of the Holy Spirit, will brim over with hope! Romans 15:13 (The Message)

The fundamental fact of existence is that this trust in God, this faith, is the firm foundation under everything that makes life worth living. It’s our handle on what we can’t see. Hebrews 11:1 (The Message) 

Reminder #2: Biblical hope is directly linked to a complete trust in God.

What’s more, our hearts brim with joy since we’ve taken for our own his holy name. Love us, God, with all you’ve got— that’s what we’re depending on. Psalm 33:21–22 (The Message)

The sure hope that believers have is one that does not put us to shame, but provides the strength we need to press on.  May we put our faith and hope in a God who has proven himself faithful in the past and will do so throughout eternity.  Because hope is an anchor that will keep us steady through all the circumstances of life.

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Spread love everywhere you go. Let no one ever come to you without leaving happier.~ Mother Teresa 

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…it is easier to be angry and pithy than to be Christlike and on mission. Such outraged approaches are self-destructive. Some of them are even contrary to what God calls us to as leaders of his church. We need to be constructive, offering Christians a vision for how to navigate outrage and be more effective in showing and sharing the love of Christ.

Stetzer, Ed. Christians in the Age of Outrage: How to Bring Our Best When the World Is at Its Worst (p. 2). Tyndale Momentum. Kindle Edition. 

Instead, immense in mercy and with an incredible love, he embraced us. He took our sin-dead lives and made us alive in Christ. He did all this on his own, with no help from us! Then he picked us up and set us down in highest heaven in company with Jesus, our Messiah. Now God has us where he wants us, with all the time in this world and the next to shower grace and kindness upon us in Christ Jesus. Saving is all his idea, and all his work. All we do is trust him enough to let him do it. It’s God’s gift from start to finish! We don’t play the major role. If we did, we’d probably go around bragging that we’d done the whole thing! (Ephesians 2:4–9 The Message)

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“The poorest of all men is not the one without a nickel to his name. He is the fellow without a dream…[He is like] a great ship made for the mighty ocean but trying to navigate in a mill-pond.  He has no far port to reach, no lifting horizon nor precious cargo to carry.  His hours are absorbed in routine and petty tyrannies.  Small wonder if he gets dissatisfied, quarrelsome, and “fed up.” One of life’s greatest tragedies is a person with a 10-by-12 capacity and a two-by-four soul.” ~Kenneth Hildebrand 

(Quoted in Doug Clay, Dreaming in 3D: Finding and Following God’s Amazing Plan for Your Life (Springfield Mo: Influence Resources, 2011))


No, we neither make nor save ourselves. God does both the making and saving. He creates each of us by Christ Jesus to join him in the work he does, the good work he has gotten ready for us to do, work we had better be doing. (Ephesians 2:10- The Message)

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With a Grateful Heart

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As we come to a close of a busy season in the Church Ministries Department, Nyree and I want to share our gratitude, for you! Looking back over the past several months of traveling across our state and holding several events, we want to say thank you to the many who have come and shown your support. Nyree and I do not take it for granted!

October began with the start of multiple locations for the Oklahoma School of Ministry. We were blessed with so many students returning to continue their courses and a great number coming in to start the first level. These students are tremendous assets to the Kingdom of God and will deepen the bench of many of our churches across the state!

Oklahoma Credentialed Women held their Fall Seminar at Tulsa Christian Chapel in October. Dr. Deborah Gill challenged the women with her anointed teaching and a plea to remember the Dream they were given when they were called. The ladies finished the day with a dynamic prayer time. Looking ahead, the OCW will be at Edmond Spring Creek February 16th, for the Spring Seminar with Crystal Martin, the National Women in Ministry Network Leader.

Light for the Lost began it’s annual tour, challenging churches to come alongside our missionary efforts around the world. As LFTL provides the evangelistic tools our missionaries need to effectively reach people with the Gospel of Jesus Christ, there is still much to be accomplished. Thank you to each pastor and church for your continued support of LFTL and we look forward to great days of harvest in the days to come!

In December, our Senior Heritage Christmas event will be held at Bethesda OKC on December 1st. Beginning at 11:00 am, we will have a great lunch together with a concert by Russell Davis on the saxophone, followed by the Williamson Quartet! You can find more information online at about how to register as well as additional poster downloads. It promises to be a fantastic day so plan to join us!

Our prayer for you during the month of November is that you will be blessed as you connect with family and friends over Thanksgiving. May we all be grateful for the relationships that God has gifted us with and cherish them with gracious hearts. From our family to yours, we love and appreciate you!

Healthy Churches are Missional Churches

But you will receive power when the Holy Spirit has come upon you, and you will be my witnesses in Jerusalem and in all Judea and Samaria, and to the end of the earth.” Acts 1:8 (ESV)

Exiting the highway, we pulled up to the stop sign to make our turn.  Standing beside the road was a man holding a sign, which read, “The Struggle is Real.” With those four words, he conveyed the reality that many people face who struggles day in and day out with poverty.  While I don’t know his exact situation or the circumstances that brought him to that point in his life, I do know that for many, the struggle is real.

As a pastor and leader, casting vision and moving the church forward can often be a challenge, to say the least.  We all know that vision is life-giving to a church, yet we also know that the struggle is real in moving a church toward its God-given purpose and mission.  While there are a plethora of suggestions concerning how to move churches forward, the word of God is clear, we must be missional in purpose in order to be a healthy church.

This is not an idea that I came across because of my great creative mind, but because I was forced to think about the church and its purpose in a different way.  I knew that the church was a sending organization and that its members must be involved in the ministry of the church, but moving people in that direction was challenging to say the least.  However, I had a former pastor make a request that I couldn’t help but commit to.

When I became pastor of Tecumseh, the former pastor asked me to commit to keeping up the missionary support that had been established.  While I knew that missions were an important part of the church, this critical ministry became the lifeblood of all that we were to do in the church, community, state and around the world.  The problem came when I looked at the budget versus the pledges and realized that missions giving was not adding up to the monthly missions budget.

For a guy who likes for budgets to be balanced and that we build some cushion for future expenses, this became a challenge to me.  Additionally, if we are going to encourage people to give, how do we motivate them to commit to the mission?  So for the next 15 years, we made missions a priority.  The residual result was not something that I had expected.

During that period of time, we never balanced the missions budget and I must say that I am glad we never did, because it not only became an important part of our church focus, but it also moved our church in a new direction.  It brought new life to the church and ultimately helped us become healthier as a whole.

Here are some of the benefits of being a missional church:

1. It allows the church to see the world through God’s eyes.  Seeing people through the eyes of God challenges the church to join together with what he is doing to reach the lost.  Love, grace, and compassion become a defining characteristic of a missional church.

2. It allows the church to see the big picture of Kingdom work.  We begin to see that the Kingdom of God is bigger than the local congregation and that we can easily affect the work by simply joining together in partnership with missionaries and ministries around the world.  Missional churches have an outward focus and will do what it takes to see the Kingdom of God move forward.

3. It gives the church the responsibility for the mission.  Missional churches will take the responsibility to fulfill the needs of others and when they do, they take ownership of ministry.  Being missional brings people to a new level of generosity.

4. It gives life and vitality to the church.  As we become a part of what God is doing in his Church, that he blesses our efforts.  At the same time, we must recognize that becoming a missional church will put our focus on the Kingdom which will also affect how we minister locally.

While this list is not exhaustive and there is not enough room for further exposition of this idea, know that being missional has a lasting and life-giving effect upon your church and ministries.  Some of the healthiest churches, both large and small, are missional in nature.


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